Aries

Please note that this is a general guide to your compatibility with other Star Signs, based purely on your Sun and doesn't take other factors into account. A Time Together Report or a Togetherness Report provides more details on the dynamics of your particular relationship.

Aries approach love in exactly the same way as they approach everything else in life, head on! Aries is the first Sign of the Zodiac and the Sign that leads us into Astrological spring. Aries like to be at the head of the parade, preferring to take the lead. Aries are hunters and in prefer the thrill of the chase to the comfort of capture. When an Aries is courting or trying to win a heart, they’re on a quest and excited by the thrill of the chase.

Aries is a Fire Sign, so you can be sure there will be a lot of heat and passion in the game of love. These are fiery individuals, intense and motivated. The physical aspects of love are important to an Aries, for it's actions not words that count. Mars, ruling planet of Aries is ruled in turn by Ares god of war, so there is always a desire to go into battle.

For an Aries it's less about 'tell me how much you love me' and more about 'show me how much you love me'. An Aries might not whisper sweet romantic nothings in your ear as other Signs might do, but they will show you instead, with lavish displays of affection. Aries love to be noticed and no matter what game they're playing, they want to be the centre of attention.

With a male Aries there is a sense of ownership towards their mate that says to the world 'she's mine, keep your hands off or you'll have a fight on your hands'. They also have a heightened sense of ego and want the whole world to know just how much of an attentive lover they are, so while many of the displays of affection and romance they'll shower on you are for your benefit, they are also a statement that says 'she's so lucky to have me'. Bragging rights are important to the Male Ram and when he's out with the boys he'll do a lot of bragging about the women in his life, which in their younger days may really be 'women', not 'woman'.

A female Aries needs to know that in her mate's eyes she's No. 1. She won't tolerate a roving eye and when it comes to anniversaries and special occasions she expects it to be a big deal. She needs to be constantly reassured that you have her up on a pedestal.

Both male and female Aries are constantly on the lookout for something new. They don't like routine and even in their day to day life they need to know that there's a hint of the adventure on the horizon. Aries are not too great on the small details of romance, like opening the door for you or putting out the rubbish, but when it comes to the big things, they're there in style.

The sex life of an Aries is very important and in a romantic relationship they'll want to get to the physical stage a lot quicker than other Signs. Aries are impulsive, egotistical and can be selfish, but they more than make up for this by being impossibly easy to love. Who could help but fall head over heels for these colourful and dynamic creatures?

If an Aries is pursuing you, expect to be wooed on a grand scale, with one of the most intense and romantic of lovers in the cosmos. Take them home and unwrap them and you'll find that unless you can keep the thrill of the chase alive and give them plenty of passion, they may easily tire of normality. Your Aries may try and pick a fight, just to keep that passion going, so find other ways to keep the flame alive.

Compatibility

The most compatible Sign for an Aries is Leo, ruler of Aries’ sector of love and romance, followed by fellow Fire Sign Sagittarius. Sometimes though, too much Fire energy in a relationship can be too much of a good thing and one thing that an Aries doesn't want is having to compete for the Alpha Male position, which belongs to the Aries.

Having two Aries in one relationship could spell disaster, with both vying for top position. Unless you can learn to compromise and share the reins I'd avoid this one. However if you can both handle the heat this would be a very, very passionate connection. Expect plenty of battles and especially battles of will, but then the making up will be spectacular, so long as you don't wear yourselves out in the process. Two bosses in one relationship could be a bit hard to handle.

Take a punt on opposite Sign Libra, as opposites really do attract. Some of the peaceful soothing ways of the Libran could be just what's needed to tame this intense and passionate Ram.

A sensitive Cancerean or Piscean you may find Aries’ 'speak first and think second' impulsiveness, bossiness and quickness of tongue a little hard to handle and an Aries may find the quietness and unwillingness to confront things too hard to cope with. But that may be just what's needed to bring a Cancerean out of their shell and get them to open up. Although Aries may find it hard to handle the silences and moods of a Cancerean they share the status of a Cardinal Sign, ready for new things. Cancereans love to feel protected and to have a strong presence in their life. This combination could work, if there are no control issues.

The other Signs to consider are Aries’ next door neighbours, Pisces and Taurus. Although there is little love lost between these Signs Venus, planet of love is often found either in the same Sign as your Sun or a Sign either side. For an Aries, their Venus will most likely be in Pisces, Aries or Taurus - so Pisces and Taurus have around a 33 percent chance of being compatible, so there could be a surprise compatibility.

Whether you're an Aries or you're in love with an Aries there's one thing you can be sure of, your love life will never be boring.

In a nutshell:

Aries and Aries: Lots of fiery competition will mean that love is never dull. The challenge will be how to accommodate two bosses in one relationship. Passion all the way!

Aries and Taurus: Aries likes it fast and furious, Taurus likes it slow and sensuous. If they can get their timing right, each has a lot to teach the other.

Aries and Gemini: Lots of flirty chemistry and pillow talk leads to a very erotic connection. If this couple can avoid petty arguments, they'll never tire of each other.

Aries and Cancer: Opposites attract with an appealing sense of curiosity drawing these unlikely lovers together. Water and Fire create steam and a lot of fun in the bedroom.

Aries and Leo: Have a fire extinguisher handy, as passion and sparks fly with this connection. There'll be a power struggle, but lots of fun making up after any fights.

Aries and Virgo: An immediate attraction that might not last beyond the first few dates. Attraction is skin deep but this connection can work with patience on both sides.

Aries and Libra: Two halves of one whole. Opposites attract to create star crossed lovers with a whole lot of sexual attraction. Both find in each other what they're looking for.

Aries and Scorpio: You'll find it hard pulling this pair apart, with love at first sight drawing this passionate couple together. Sexual chemistry will keep them hooked.

Aries and Sagittarius: This pair is likely to impulsively rush into love. There's a 50/50 chance of a match made in heaven or a train wreck in the making.

Aries and Capricorn: They may get there in the end, but they're likely to have a shaky start. These two Signs just don't understand each other.

Aries and Aquarius: Life is never dull with a couple that are friends as well as lovers. They'll continue to fascinate each other and both will think that they're the lucky one.

Aries and Pisces: Pisces is the moth to Aries’ flame and they're drawn together by an inexplicable force. They'll never understand each other, but will want to spend a lifetime trying.